COMPLETE RESULT AS ANNOUNCED IN THE 36 STATE OF NIGERIA

Presidential Results as announced in each state

1. EKITI
APC- 219,231✔
PDP- 154,032

2. OSUN
APC- 347,634✔
PDP- 337377

3. FCT
APC- 152,224
PDP- 259,997❌

4. KWARA
APC- 308,984✔
PDP- 138,184

5. NASARAWA
APC- 289,903✔
PDP- 238,847

6. EBONYI
APC- 90,726
PDP- 258,573❌

7. JIGAWA
APC-794,738✔
PDP-289,895

8. ENUGU
APC- 54,423
PDP-355,553❌

9. YOBE
APC- 497,914✔
PDP- 50,763

10. KOGI
APC- 285,984✔
PDP- 218,207

11. ADAMAWA
APC- 378,072
PDP- 410,266❌

12. KANO
APC- 1,464,768✔
PDP- 391,573

13. PLATEAU
APC- 468,555
PDP- 548,665❌

14. EDO
APC- 267,842
PDP- 275,691❌

15. OYO
APC- 365,230
PDP- 366,720❌

16. LAGOS
APC- 580,814✔
PDP- 448,016

17. KATSINA
APC- 1,232,133✔
PDP- 308,056

18. GOMBE
APC- 402,961✔
PDP-138,484

19. OGUN
APC- 281,762✔
PDP- 194,655

20. ONDO
APC- 241,769
PDP- 275,901❌

21. ABIA
APC- 85,058
PDP- 219,698❌

22. AKWA IBOM
APC-175,429
PDP- 397,831❌

23. BAUCHI
APC- 798,438✔
PDP- 209,313

24. BORNO
APC- 841,736✔
PDP- 65,414

25. KADUNA
APC- 993,445✔
PDP- 649,612

26. SOKOTO
APC- 490,333✔
PDP- 361,604

27. TARABA
APC- 374,743✔
PDP- 324,908

28. NIGER
APC- 612,371✔
PDP- 218,052

29. BENUE
APC- 347,668
PDP- 355,355❌

30. IMO
APC-  140,463
PDP-  334,923❌

31.ANAMBRA
APC-  33,298
PDP-  524,738❌

32.CROSS RIVER
APC-  117,303
PDP-  295,737❌

33.RIVER STATE
APC-  213,451
PDP-  481,121❌

34.ZAMFARA
APC-  438,682✔
PDP-  125,423

35.BAYELSA
APC-  118,821
PDP-  197,933❌

36.KEBBI
APC- 581,552✔
PDP- 154,282

37.DELTA
APC-  221,292
PDP-  594,068❌


TOTAL
APC- 15,963,080✔
PDP- 11,734,151

TOTAL OF 2019 PRESIDENTIAL RESULT
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JAMB QUESTION!! 5 Million To Kill Mosquito On Your Dad’s Head With Slippers – Will You Do It?


This post is gonna be on fire with killer responses soon 😭😭😭 I can’t wait.

You are offered a mouth-watering deal to do something, we want to find out if you would accept it or not.

Let’s Go 👇

Would You Accept The Offer Or Not?

Tell Us The Reason Why You Would Accept Or Reject The Offer?

We want to know.
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UPDATE ON FUNAI UTME

This is to inform the general public that registration for the Post-Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination (PUTME) of Alex Ekwueme Federal University Ndufu-Alike, Ebonyi State, shall commence on Friday, 6th July, 2018 and end on Friday, 27th July, 2018. 
Interested candidates who made Alex Ekwueme Federal University, Ndufu-Alike, Ebonyi State their first choice institution in their application for admission in the 2018/2019 Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination and scored 180 and above are hereby informed that the University’s Post-UTME Screening Test for the under-listed programmes is scheduled to hold from Wednesday, 8th August, 2018 to Tuesday, 21st  August, 2018.




FACULTY OF AGRICULTURE
a. Agriculture (Agribusiness, Agricultural Economics, Animal Science, Crop Science, Soil Science,)

   b. Fisheries and Aquaculture
FACULTY OF BASIC MEDICAL SCIENCES
a. Anatomy
b. Physiology

FACULTY OF EDUCATION

a. Education English and Literary Studies
b. Educational Foundations (Education Management, Education Guidance & Counseling) 
c. Physical and Health Education (Health Education, Physical Education)
d. Science Education (Education Biology, Education Chemistry, Education Mathematics, Education Physics,)
e. Vocational and Technical Education (Agricultural Education, Business Education,)

FACULTY OF ENGINEERING AND TECHNOLOGY
a. Chemical Engineering
b. Civil Engineering
c. Electrical Engineering
d. Mechanical/Mechatronics Engineering

FACULTY OF HUMANITIES
a. English and Literary Studies
b. Fine and Applied Arts
c. History and Strategic Studies
d. Linguistics/Igbo
e. Music
f. Philosophy
g. Religion
h. Theatre Arts

FACULTY OF MANAGEMENT AND SOCIAL SCIENCES 
a. Accountancy
b. Banking and Finance
c. Business Administration
d. Criminology and Security Studies 
e. Economics and Development Studies
f. Mass communication
g. Political Science
h. Psychology
i. Sociology

COLLEGE OF MEDICINE
a. MBBS

FACULTY OF SCIENCE
a. Biochemistry
b. Biology
c. Biotechnology
d. Chemistry
e. Computer Science
f. Geology
g. Geophysics
h. Mathematics
i. Microbiology
j. Physics
k. Statistics

NOTE: The VENUE for the screening tests is the University’s Computer Based Test (CBT) Centre, take-off site while the DATE and TIME of test for registered candidates shall be communicated to them through the registration acknowledgement slip, which would be printed from the portal. 

ADDITIONAL INFORMATION
a. Prospective candidates who scored 180 and above and did not choose             AE-FUNAI as   their first choice institution, but wish to study in any of the University’s newly approved programmes, should visit the University’s website www.funai.edu.ng and click on “New Programmes” for registration. Such candidates are however advised to effect change of institution/course to              AE-FUNAI on the JAMB portal. 

b. Successful candidates who may be offered provisional admission are advised to accept the offer within two weeks or shall be deemed to have forfeited the offer.

c. Prospective candidates who may wish to register for the POST UTME through the AE-FUNAI ICT Centres should visit the University CBT Centre, take-off site or Centre for Educational Services (Foundation/Pre-degree School), Aguogboriga Estate, Abakaliki

MODE OF PAYMENT AND REGISTRATION PROCEDURE
Eligible candidates are required to pay a processing fee of N2, 000 only. To register, follow the steps outlined below:
a. Visit the University website: www.funai.edu.ng, go to News, Click on 2018/2019 Admission Screening
b. Click on “Prospective Students”
c. Click on “Click to Apply” under 2018/2019 Admission Screening Application
d. Enter your “JAMB Registration Number”
e. Select your payment mode (Generate Remita Retrieval Reference Number).  
f. Proceed to any bank for your payment with your Remita number.
g. Return to the Application page and enter your “JAMB Registration Number” again.
h. Proceed with the completion of the form.
i. Upload CLEAR COPIES of 2018 UTME Result, O’ Level results, recent passport photograph, Birth Certificate, and Local Government Identification.
j. Confirm your entries.
k. Submit your application.
l. Print out your acknowledgement slip.
m. And come with it for the Post-UTME Test.

TEST REQUIREMENTS
Candidates are required to come with the following items:
  1.  Registration print-out acknowledgement slip from the University website, which should indicate their date and time of test
  2. 2018/2019 Original UTME Result slip (not photocopy) showing candidate’s picture and score

For support:
E-mail: info@funai.edu.ng
Hotlines: 07031810065, 08173383032, 0905686810, 08061211296, 07051703777, 08067558863

Signed

Odisa C. Okeke (Mrs.)
Registrar
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BISHOPS BEG PRESIDENT BUHARI TO PARDON 5 MEN SENTENCED TO DEATH FOR KILLING HERDSMAN

Following a  Yola High Court judgement on June 11, 2018 to sentence five men to death by hanging, the Supreme Council of Bishops, also known as World Council of Bishops, has written President Muhammadu Buhari.
The men from Kodomun in Demsa council area of the state, according to the Judge, would face the hangman for murdering a herder in retaliation to the several killings in the area.
The letter, dated June 13, 2018 from the World Episcopal Headquarters in Texas, U.S., was titled “Special request for presidential pardon: Killing by hanging of five young men,” and signed by founding Primate, Abuja, Nigeria, Archbishop (Dr.) P.  Sunday; Ecclesiastical Prelate Administrator, Houston, Texas, United State, Archbishop (Dr.) H. Parker; Apostolic Nuncio and Prelate to Africa, Lagos, Nigeria, Bishop (Dr.) J. Onyegbulem; and Ecclesiastical Prelate to West Africa, Niamey, Niger Republic, Bishop (Dr.) J. Hussein.
The bishops said “till date no adequate justice had been meted out on them commensurate to the lives and property lost.” It therefore “totally condemns and disapproves vehemently the death sentence passed on the five young men on Monday, June 11, 2018 by a court of competent jurisdiction in Yola, Adamawa State, Nigeria accused and charged for killing a herdsman.”
They added “what our nation Nigeria sues for now in our nascent democracy is peace and tranquility, and not otherwise.”
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SINGER OLAMIDE REVEALS WHY HE CAN’T HELP HUMANS FOR NOW


Nigerian Rapper/Singer Olamide Adedeji AKA Baddosneh has got people talking on social media with a post he made on Instagram.
Olamide shared a photo with a questionable caption ;
Oyinbo say Selfishness is the beggining of sledgehammer. A cheerful giver cannot have akojor. If not dangote go done share all him money give us to solve Nigeria problem, but human needs are endless. Taink You!
I de go hustle my own bah …. I done go
Some of his fans were surprised at these words and one said ; remember we rise by lifting others…
Olamide replied ; Arise o compatriot! My garri never rise finish abeg i go join that club later when i hammer
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Real Madrid sign goalkeeper



Amos Ngaithe

Teenage Ukraine international Andriy Lunin will join Real Madrid this summer from Zorya Luhansk.
The goalkeeper has kept 20 clean sheets in 51 matches over two seasons with the first team.
At 1.91 metres tall, the shotstopper is one of the most highly rated young players in Europe and will move to Spain for 14 million euros.
The 19 year old will join the team for pre-season and Julen Lopetegui will then decide where he fits into the pecking order at the Estadio Santiago Bernabeu.

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What to Do When Someone Tells You They Like You


couple in park
Intimacy can be scary. Figuring out what to do when someone finally comes clean and tells you they like you is just the tip of the new relationship iceberg. Emotions can make dealing with this difficult - but here are some strategies that may help.

When Someone Says They Like You


There are short-term and long-term processes that have to happen when someone likes you as more than a friend. The mistakes people make in these situations are the subject of many comedies and tragedies alike from Greek mythology to Sex and the City.
There are no real hard and fast rules for human relationships, no matter how many books and TV talk show hosts may like to pretend otherwise. However, there are some guidelines to dealing with affection that may help reduce the drama involved and may lead to a happy romance.

Short Term Strategies

When someone says they like you, it puts you on the spot, and you will probably feel like you need to respond immediately, whether you like them back or not. However, when you're in the moment, you may feel frozen to the spot and not know what to do. Here are a few ideas.

Say Thank You

Regardless of whether you return the sentiment, acknowledge the person has just paid you a compliment. They were probably nervous about doing so, and that makes it all the more meaningful. The first thing to say is "Thank you for telling me!" It's simple, it's polite, and it sets a tone of conversation that can help defuse some of the tension. It also gives you a chance to deal with the other short-term strategies.

Go With Your Gut

You will have an initial reaction to hearing someone likes you. It will be immediately positive or negative, and easy to tell. About five seconds later, though, the analytical mind will start to examine and tear apart this initial reaction. That's fine, it's there to protect you but never forget that initial reaction. If you don't like someone, but try to talk yourself into it ("He's rich, he's handsome, everybody else likes him!") you are almost certainly going to end up miserable. Likewise, if you do feel attraction to someone but start criticizing the feeling ("What would my parents think?") you are setting yourself up as your own antagonist. You don't have to tell the person how you feel right away, but recognize your initial reaction as being one that is true. You'll examine that later.

Choose A, B, or C

Don't let yourself get shocked into returning the sentiment because you're surprised and don't want to hurt their feelings. You have options when someone confesses their feelings.
  • A is when you like the person, and there doesn't seem to be any reason not to tell them. If you've been thinking about how much you like them then this is exactly the time to tell them, "I like you too!"
  • B is when you have been worried about this event because you can tell they like you, and you know the feeling isn't mutual. In that case, you need to tell them in the traditional way: "I like you, but not in that way." It's better to be honest if you are sure of this.
  • C is when you aren't sure and when it comes as a surprise. There is nothing wrong with saying "Thank you for telling me! Wow, that's a surprise. I need some time to process this. Can we talk more about it later?" Because the brain likes surprises (according to findings in a study Dr. Gregory Berns, an assistant psychiatry professor at Emory University in Atlanta, performed), you may get a rush of the feel-good neurotransmitter, dopamine, as long as the surprise isn't a negative one (as with option B). If you're not sure how you feel, taking some time to think about it will be your best bet.

Long Term Strategies

holding hands
The strategy for choice "A" above is pretty simple: Live happily ever after. Or just date awhile. Take things as they come and enjoy each other's company in this new light.
If you have to refuse their affections, remember honesty is far less cruel than leading someone on. One of the biggest fears of telling someone you like them is you may lose them as a friend. The only way to avoid this is to set and keep personal boundaries in how you spend time together, and how you show the ways you do like each other. To muddy the waters will only lead to more confused feelings and mixed signals.
If you are taking time to think about it, make sure you make it a priority. Try to find a place and time when you can focus on your feelings. Make sure that you differentiate between what are true feelings and what are outside voices trying to convince you of what you should feel, rather than what you do feel.

Moving Forward

In the end, no one can tell you exactly what to do when someone says they like you. When it happens, you are taking part in one of the most integral and beautiful parts of the human experience. It's easy to handle if you return their affections! If you're less enthusiastic about dating or entering a relationship, do make sure you're gentle with their feelings whether you're taking a few days to think about how you feel or letting them down on the spot. If you're good friends, you may find you have to work a little harder to make the friendship seem natural again because the person who confessed they like you might be feeling awkward and unsure of how to proceed.
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Sensual Kissing Tips


A few kissing tips are sure to help in the game of love and dating. A key component to intimacy, kissing is a private moment shared between a couple - even in a crowded room. Whether it is a quick peck or a long smooch, kissing is a pleasant way to spread a little love.
The act of kissing causes a chemical reaction in our brains. This rush of neurotransmitters goes straight to the brain's pleasure center. By using these kissing tips to improve your technique, biology will help you make stronger partnerships, naturally.

Basic Kissing Guidelines


A kiss can have many meanings: friendly, romantic, affection and passion. No matter your purpose, the basic kiss has guidelines to ensure it is a satisfying experience for both.
Kissing is much more than purely touching lips. The experience actually involves three main senses: touch, taste, and smell. When your partner's mouth touches yours, you want to taste delicious, smell delightful and touch gracefully. A great kiss should pause slightly just before the lips connect, let the other person kiss back, and have the kissers complete and undivided attention. In addition, keep the following in mind:
  • Lips should be soft, moist, warm and slightly parted.
  • The kiss should be firm, but tender.
  • Proper timing is important - spontaneous, but welcomed.
  • A kiss should be backed up by genuine feelings of intimacy.
Before a date or as you see your lover approaching, get in the mood for a kiss. Your mouth should be clean, teeth brushed, and lips moisturized. Smile and catch your partner eye first before making the move toward a kiss. Open up your body, stand close, and tilt your head. Reach outward while kissing; touch the other person with your body, arms and hands. When actually kissing, make sure you are comfortable, or the kiss itself will be awkward.
When the kiss is over, slowly close your lips and pause before withdrawing. The end of the kiss is as important as the beginning. Pull back gently and maintain some contact, either holding hands, hugging or simply standing close. Look into each others eyes, before moving apart.

Practice

Although it may sound silly, like any art form, practice is important. Practicing with another person is fun if you have an intimate friend or current relationship. If not, you can still practice in other ways. Consider the following:
  • Watch romantic movies and study the way the couples kiss.
  • Think about how you eat, what feels good in your own mouth and the varying sensations.
  • Practice tongue and lip movements on lollipops, gum or ice cream cones.
  • Kiss your own hands and arms, how do different movements of your lips and tongue feel on your skin.

That Important First Kiss

Before embarking on the important adventure of a first kiss, consider these important kissing tips:
  • Develop intimacy first before kissing.
  • Heavy flirting before leaning toward the kiss can help put you both in the mood.
  • Time and place are particularly critical for that first unforgettable kiss. Ideally, you want to be alone, in a romantic and memorable setting.

Specific Kissing Tips

Even if you have years of great kissing under your dating belt, the following are definitely some good reminders.
  • Taste and smell your lipstick, gloss and chapstick. Make sure they are pleasing.
  • Use touch to enhance your kissing experience.
  • Lick and press lips together slightly before kissing to soften, moisten and warm them.
  • Most kissers close their eyes, so you should too - although, it can be nice to look at each other once in a while.
  • Kiss other parts of the body rather than just the lips.
  • Kissing is an important part of a healthy relationship. Don't let your pucker die away.
  • Incorporate kissing into your day - pecks on the cheek in greeting, a smooch before leaving for work, a tender bedtime neck canoodle.
  • Rub noses while kissing for childish fun.
  • Take advantage of the sensual tongue, with all its touch and taste sensations.
  • Giggle and laugh while kissing. Enjoy yourselves.

Making Out

In traditional making out, the kiss of choice is the French kiss. While most of us receive lots of practice with casual kissing at a young age, the French kiss is a bit more illusive. If you need some more guidance in this passionate practice, consider the following French kissing tips.
  • Always ensure both of you are relaxed, comfortable and snuggled, before beginning a longer make out session.
  • Find the perfect romantic setting; lighting, sounds and aromas all help create the mood.
  • Start out slow, with gentle closed lip kissing, moving into the more heated tongue kisses.
  • Utilize your other body parts to enhance the passion. Caress your partner's face, touch her hair, wrap your legs together, hug and push close together.
  • When using your tongue to kiss, you want to avoid too much. Make sure the tongue is relaxed and the movements gentle and subtle.
  • Brush your tongue inside your partner's mouth, suck slightly on each others tongues, and tickle the lips.
  • Avoid too much movement while kissing, make your actions controlled and relaxed.
  • Remember to take breathing breaks.
  • Take control of your saliva.
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100 Questions You Should Ask Before Marriage


Couple at dinner
Marcelina Hardy, MSEd, BCCBoard Certified Coach
Marriage is a big step in a relationship. It signifies the commitment and love you have for someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. While having the strong feelings of love towards someone is essential to getting married, there are other important factors to consider before walking down the aisle. Ask the following questions to help you determine if he is the one for you forever.

Children

  • How many kids do you want?
  • What values do you want to install in your children?
  • How do you want to discipline your kids?
  • What would you do if one of your children said he was homosexual?
  • What if our children didn't want to go to college?
  • How much say do children have in a family?
  • How comfortable are you around children?
  • Would you be opposed to having our parents watch the children so we can spend time alone together?
  • Would you put your children in private or public school?
  • What are your thoughts on homeschooling?
  • Would you be willing to adopt if we couldn't have kids?
  • Would you be willing to seek medical treatment if we couldn't have kids naturally?
  • Do you believe it's okay to discipline your child in public?
  • How do you feel about paying for your kid's college education?
  • How far apart do you want kids?
  • Would you want someone to stay home with the kids or use daycare?
  • How would you feel if our kids wanted to join the military rather than go to college?
  • How involved do you want grandparents to be in our parenting?
  • How will we handle parental decisions?

Dealing With Conflict

  • Would you be willing to go to marriage counseling if we were having marital problems?
  • If there is a disagreement between me and your family, whose side do you choose?
  • How do you handle disagreements?
  • Would you ever consider divorce?
  • Would you rather discuss issues as they arise or wait until you have a few problems?
  • How would you communicate you aren't satisfied sexually?
  • What is the best way to handle disagreements in a marriage?
  • How can I be better about communicating with you?

Moral, Political, Religious, Family Values and Beliefs

  • What are your views on infidelity?
  • What are your religious views on marriage?
  • What's more important, work or family?
  • What are your political views?
  • What are your views on birth control?
  • Would you rather be rich and miserable or poor and happy?
  • Who will make the biggest decisions of the household?
  • What would you do if someone said something bad about me?
  • Would you follow the advice of your family before your spouse?
  • What do you believe the role of a wife is?
  • Who should do household chores?
  • What do you believe the role of a husband is?

Handling Finances

  • How do you feel about debt?
  • Would you share all money with your spouse or split the money into different accounts?
  • What are your views on saving money?
  • What are your views on spending money?
  • What if we both want something but can't afford both?
  • How well do you budget?
  • Do you feel it is important to save for retirement?
  • Would you be willing to get a second job if we had financial problems?
  • Do you have any debt?
  • What if a family member wants to borrow a large sum of money?
  • Who will take care of the financial matters of the household?

Entertainment

  • Do you enjoy travelling?
  • How often would you like to travel?
  • Where would you like to travel?
  • How important is spending time alone to you?
  • How would you feel about me going on a trip with the girls (boys) for a couple of weeks?
  • How important is spending time with friends to you?
  • What would be the perfect weekday evening to you?
  • What would we do if we both had a break from work, but each of us had different ideas on how to spend it?

Extended Family

  • How often would you want to visit your family?
  • How often will your family visit us?
  • How often would you want my family to visit?
  • How often would you want to visit my family?
  • Do you have a family history of diseases or genetic abnormalities?
  • What if one of your family members said he disliked me?
  • How would you handle holiday family visits?
  • If your parents became ill, would you take them in?
  • If my parents became ill, would you mind taking them in?

Medical Information

  • Does anyone in your family suffer from alcoholism?
  • What is your medical family history?
  • Would you be opposed to mental health treatment?
  • If I had to change my diet because of medical concerns, would you be willing to change yours?
  • Are you willing to exercise with me to improve our health?
  • Where do you want to live?
  • Would you mind moving if I had to relocate with my job?

About the Relationship and Marriage

  • What would you do if we fell out of love?
  • What are your career aspirations?
  • What would you like to be doing five or ten years from now?
  • What do you think is the best way to keep the love alive in a marriage?
  • How do you think life will change if we got married?
  • What is the best thing about marriage?
  • What is the worst thing about marriage?
  • What is your idea of the best weekend?
  • How important are wedding anniversaries to you?
  • How would you like to spend special days?
  • What kind of grandparent do you want to be someday?
  • What type of house do you want to live in?
  • What is your biggest fear about marriage?
  • What excites you about getting married?
  • What do wedding rings mean to you?
  • Are you afraid to talk to me about anything?
  • What do you think would improve our relationship?
  • What would be one thing you would change about our relationship?
  • Do you have any doubts about the future of our relationship?
  • Do you believe love can pull you through anything?
  • Is there anything you don't trust about me?

Miscellaneous

  • Which would you choose - dishes or laundry?
  • Do you like pets?
  • How many pets do you want?
  • What to do you want to do during retirement?
  • At what age would you like to retire?

Don't Ask Your Questions All at Once

Thoughtful questions deserve thoughtful replies which aren't necessarily going to come instantly. If you and your partner are seriously considering marriage. set aside some time to discuss these topics so you can be sure of what you both think and feel. This will give you plenty of opportunities to gauge whether marriage should be the next step in your relationship.
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All About First Kisses

couple kissing
It's time for your first kiss. Don't sweat it. It's not as hard as you think. Once you do it a few times, you'll think back and wonder, "What in the world was I so nervous about to begin with..." The trick is to get by the first-time jitters.

Your First Kiss Fears

If you're having some anxiety about your first kiss, you aren't alone. Everyone has some fear when it comes time to pucker up for the first time. What do most people worry about?
  • Will he or she think I am a good kisser?
  • What if it's unexpected and my breath smells bad?
  • I have never kissed anyone. I don't even know what to do.
  • How will I know he or she wants to kiss me?
  • What if we bump heads? Which way do I turn my head?
  • How much tongue do I use? Do I use my tongue?
  • Where do I put my hands?
  • How long do I kiss for? How will I know when to stop?
  • When do I turn my head during a kiss? Do I turn my head?
It's okay. You won't have to know everything about kissing when you kiss for the first time because guess what? Your first kiss won't be a 20 minute make-out session.
You will most likely have a five second (if that) kissing session that will consist of two lips puckered that touch each other with some suction. That's it. You'll release, look into each other's eyes and you'll think it's magical. Your kissing partner will probably think it's pretty awesome too.
While this may seem pretty simple, that doesn't mean you shouldn't be armed with some tipsbefore you enter your first kissing experience.

The Lowdown on Your First Kiss

It's time for some kissing education. While this prepares you to kiss for the first time, the best way to perfect your kissing technique is to do it. Practice makes perfect - so once you know how to kiss, don't be afraid to pucker up when the moment calls for it.
Now, for your lesson on kissing.

Lesson #1: Invest in Mints

Have mints on hands at all times. You can easily swallow a mint when you're about to kiss someone. That way, you can be assured that your breath is fresh and clean.

Lesson #2: How to Know When to Kiss

You'll know someone wants to kiss you when the person looks deeply into your eyes and leans into you. You'll feel it inside you that there's something about to happen. If you start leaning into the person, and he or she doesn't step back or lean back, you know it's time...a special time for a kiss.

Lesson #3: Imagine Kissing

Right now, try it. Imagine kissing the person you think you'll be kissing for the first time. Pay attention to where your hands will go.
Usually, they go on the person's waist, or if you're embracing, in the middle of your partner's back. If you are sitting next to each other, it's okay to hold his or her hand(s), or place a hand on the arm, or upper thigh.

Lesson #4: Relax Your Body

Take a deep breath and let it all out, so your body is relaxed. If you are too uptight, your lips will remain tight, and your kissing partner will feel that. Remember, you can do this.

Lesson #5: Move Slowly Into the Kiss

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To resolve your anxiety about which way to move your head, move in slowly for the kiss. That way, you can watch which way the person you are kissing is moving his or her head, and you can turn the opposite way. See, if you go too quickly, you may go the say way, and then BAM - knocked heads. It will make it more special if you move more slowly too.
Moving slowly into the kiss will also give you time to prepare you to form your mouth for the kiss. Don't start puckering when you are a foot from the other person. When you're about five inches or so, open your mouth slightly and pucker up a little. It's not exactly a classic pucker when you are romantically kissing, it's more of a loose pucker.

Lesson #6: Close Your Eyes

Some people don't close their eyes, but some kissing partners are spooked by that. So for the sake of not running off your first kissing partner, just close your eyes when you lock your lips. Someday, if it makes you too uncomfortable to close your eyes, you can take a stand and just keep them open. It's up to your kissing partner to deal with it if he or she doesn't like it.

Lesson #7: No Need to Turn Your Head or Use Tongue

Good news! For your first kiss, you don't need to turn your head. Actually, when you turn your head, it's really more than one kiss. You are actually releasing a little when you turn your head during a kiss. You kiss, stop a little, turn your head and continuing kissing. That's for another lesson though.
You also don't need to use your tongue. That's for more experienced kissers.

Lesson #8: Savor the Moment and Slowly Let Go

Once you lock your lips, savor the moment. You've done it! You are in your first kiss - AH! How awesome is that?
When does it end? No need to count. Just wait a little and then slowly move your head back a little. Your kissing partner will understand that the kissing is over and move his or her head back too.
As you move back, slowly open your head, look into the eyes of your kissing partner and smile.

Bonus Tip:

Sneak in a quick little kiss once you separate from the lips. It's cute and shows that you really liked the kiss. It will send an extra little shiver down his or her spine.

You're Ready for Your Kiss

You have the knowledge now to kiss someone and with this knowledge, you have the power. Take it and use it to create one of the most memorable moments of your life. Your fears will soon be behind you as soon as you have your first ever kiss. You'll have to do it sometimes, so it might as well be now.
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